anyone tried to set up aws glue to extract data via netsuite's jdbc?

What data are you trying to extract? What is the use case for it?

well i'm trying to get netsuite data into aws redshift

If you are pulling a significant amount of data from NetSuite I suspect you will need Suite Analytics Connect (ODBC connection). Outside of using a 3rd party integration there are a few other options but all depends on your use case.